Everyone has words they dislike. I have three:
The first is “facility.” Especially when grouped with ‘assisted living’ or ‘continuing care,’ or ‘memory care.’ I’d always thought a facility is a place where things are made, or shipped from, or warehoused. Facilities are places for getting things done. Why do we apply the term ‘facility’ to describe places where older people reside? Residences or homes are where people live. Like long-term care residences, or skilled-nursing homes. Coupling the word facility with places where many seniors reside contributes to the objectification of older people, that is, treating them as an object or thing.